Why is this so popular? The author himself unwittingly admits that the reason that straight women like gay clubs is that they objectify gay men: 'Taking your female friends to a gay bar is like taking a vegetarian to a butcher shop. For example, let's talk about the fact that so many straight women have taken to throwing their bachelorette parties in gay clubs that some gay clubs have had to ban them entirely.
Unfortunately for him, reality is not so simple: He very painfully and obviously overlooks how straight women treat gay men. The author's portrayal of the relationship between gay men and women seems to narrow it into one of exploitation of women by gay men.